Category: Personal

  • Andy and I recently saw the touring production of Les Miserables, which is one of his favorite musicals. A few years ago when he was traveling overseas a lot for business, he would often play the Hugh Jackman movie version — or even just that soundtrack — in the background while doing work on his…

  • 2020

    Hi. I’m still here. Well, not here here. There is no time for here. No time or space for much of anything besides the kids, really. But I’m finally getting some decent sleep again, so that’s nice. I keep thinking about how sleep deprivation/interruption is literally used as a torture technique, but mothers (esp of…

  • And then there were two

    This little dude arrived last week, more or less on time, which felt quite late to this summer-hating mama. We’re all doing well — better than I expected, to be honest — as we navigate through and to our new normal. These first couple months are my least favorite phase of motherhood. My body aches…

  • From “Boyhood on a Shelf” by Barbara Mahany: That’s what reading together in childhood does: It forever binds us. My two boys, born eight years apart, played with their toys alone. Reading was where we nestled, where we sank in deep, side by side. Books are where our hearts did so very much of their…

  • This is 33

    Last month, this little turkey turned two. Yesterday, I turned thirty-three. And of course, today is Thanksgiving. Lots of occasions for reflection. It’s easy to say that what I’m most thankful for is her — because it’s true. Like any toddler, she does cry and whine on occasion, but on the whole, she’s such a…