As an experiment, I’m doing away with the bullet points, even though they’re like a security blanket for me. “Oh, this is just a list, not a real blog post.” But what does that even mean, lol? What’s a fake blog post? And why do I have to take everything so seriously?


Like Jane the VirginTransparent jumped to the forefront of my attention after its Golden Globes wins. I binge-watched all ten episodes on Sat, Jan 24, thanks to Amazon making them free to stream for that day. (Normally the series is only available to Amazon Prime members.) And just so you know that I’m not a total slug: I was cleaning while I watched.

Transparent felt like an HBO show to me — a bit like Girls, actually — in the sense that it’s well-written, well-acted, and well-produced, but not something that would probably appeal to the mainstream. Not because the topic is niche (though I suppose some would argue that it is…) but rather because the tone of the show just isn’t easy to swallow. It’s a dark comedy (meaning there’s humor, but not the kind that makes you laugh out loud) starring a fairly “unlikable” family. They’re all messed up and abrasive, and they make a lot of bad decisions.

That said, you do sympathize with them, because they love each other, and they’re doing the best they can. The acting is excellent, and there’s interesting storytelling at work too. Flashbacks that parallel the present storyline, or enhance it with revelations. Unreliable narration, or arguably magical realism, depending on your interpretation. Also, the sets are kind of old-timey and gorgeous.

For the most part I do enjoy the show, but I wish there were at least a couple well-adjusted characters. Partly because it would just be a nice contrast, but mostly because I worry about the (false) implication that a trans person can’t have a “normal” family. That by being trans — even (or especially) when she was closeted — Maura irrevocably damaged the people who she loves. I know that isn’t what Transparent is trying to say, but I fear that (so far) the show is sort of saying it anyway.

Krohn Conservatory

On the same day that I was streaming Transparent, an old friend came into town, so I took a break and we went to see the Frank Lloyd Wright-inspired garden show at Krohn Conservatory. It was small, but smelled amazing. Wasn’t too bad to look at, either.

Small but beautiful exhibit at Krohn Conservatory, inspired by Frank Lloyd Wright.

A photo posted by Kristan (@kristanhoffman) on

Note to self: Get a plant. Something green and alive to freshen up your home.

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Believe it or not, I’ve never seen Dead Poets Society, but I know the gist of it, and I’m pretty sure Mona Lisa Smile is the female version. Forward-thinking teacher inspires brilliant but hesitant young minds? Check!

Personally, I very much enjoyed the movie and its overtly feminist messaging. I also liked the entire cast, including the somewhat divisive Julia Roberts. (You either think she’s gorgeous or has a toothy horse face. I am in the former group.)

There aren’t any surprises in this movie, but that’s okay. It’s about character. My favorite moment, hands down, is when a heartbroken Betty (Kirsten Dunst) viciously lashes out at Giselle (Maggie Gyllenhaal) for being a slut with daddy issues, and Giselle just gathers her screaming, crying friend into her arms, and they hold each other.


Usually Andy and I just play flag football from Sep to Nov, but this year the team wanted to try a few other sports in addition. Right now it’s broomball, which is like hockey without skates. And “brooms” instead of sticks. And a ball instead of a puck.

orange iguanas broomball

Yeah, it’s weird. But also surprisingly fun!

Writer Unboxed & the Super Bowl

Speaking of sports… Since my latest Writer Unboxed post fell on Super Bowl Sunday, I decided to spotlight 3 football players and share what I’ve learned from them about pursuing dreams.

“Talent, Perseverance, and Hard Work: Lessons on Writing from Football”

Fred Jackson may never end up in the Hall of Fame, but he’s got heart and soul, and he’s the reason I fell in love with football again. Although the odds of him making it to the NFL seemed grim, he had faith in himself, and passion for the sport. He is living his dream because he looks at every step of the process as an opportunity to improve and impress.

That’s the kind of writer I want to be.

6 responses to “Week in review (Feb 3, 2015)”

  1. yogadog Avatar

    There is a 2002 Canadian movie called “Men With Brooms.” A sweet, if predictable, romantic comedy about broom ball.

    1. Kristan Avatar

      Really?! Lol too funny. I may have to check that out.

  2. Shari Avatar

    The conservatory looks beautiful! It reminds me of Longwood Gardens, which isn’t too far from me. I went for the first time last year and immediately loved it. It’s so nice to brighten up the winter with some flowers!

  3. Natalia Sylvester (@NataliaSylv) Avatar

    “I worry about the (false) implication that a trans person can’t have a “normal” family. That by being trans — even (or especially) when she was closeted — Maura irrevocably damaged the people who she loves.” YES. I started getting this sense, too, especially because inevitably, all of Maura’s kids’ inner conflicts have to do with either their relationships or sex (or both). It’s as if this is the only lens we’re seeing these characters through: not let’s say, through how they might feel about their careers or friendships or passions, etc. I would love to see them explored as whole beings, not only sexual or gendered beings.

    That being said, I’m still really enjoying it and looking forward to season 2. The performances are beautiful and heartbreaking at times, especially Tambor’s, and there are many times when, in the hands of other talent, they might’ve taken a more cliche route with the drama or with characters’ reactions, but they don’t. So I’m excited to see how the show evolves from here.

    1. Kristan Avatar

      Oh, you’ve pinpointed it! We are only viewing these characters (so far) through the lens of their sexuality and relationships — not anything else about what makes them who they are — and I’m hungry for the other sides of them.

      It’s silly, but I feel so happy (and relieved, strangely) for how you’ve put it so clearly. Thank you. :)

      But yes, I’m with you, in being on board for the journey and (hopefully) evolution. Tambor leads an all-around excellent cast. And the main house is so gorgeous to look at…

  4. Jonathan Avatar

    Broomball sounds like fun! I had never heard of it before…So much to do in Cincinnati!